Dealing with a heartbreak

21 Jan

One of the things I’ve learned is that time heals everything. Today you might be hurting but in a few months you won’t. Unfortunately, at times where you desperately need time to pass…it doesn’t so instead of waiting let’s look at the other options. Below I have listed 5 easy steps to get over a break over.
1.) Accept that you liked him/her and let’s face it. You’re heartbroken because you still care. If you try to ignore this fact it will just make things harder.
2.) Realise that it’s over.
3.) Make sure the breakup is as drama-free as possible and that you two are if possible still at speaking terms.
4.) Distract yourself. The best way is to hang out with friends and when you’re with them DON’T talk about the breakup.
5.) Move on. One of the best treatments for a breakup is getting a new crush.

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2 Responses to “Dealing with a heartbreak”

  1. hollowvessels February 4, 2012 at 8:27 am #

    Distraction is the best method, I find, for getting over someone. I could never bring myself to find someone new, because I find it hard to accept that we’re over. I felt as though if I got someone new, I’d be betraying our thing. Loving someone and having them not love you back is the worst feeling ever.

    • nousername February 22, 2012 at 3:48 pm #

      I agree. It hurts a lot when you have to face the truth…that they don’t love you back and that they never will.

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